Residents express shock and offer help after memorial bench is vandalized.
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A heartwarming tribute turned tragic in Buckie, where a local man, Findlay Smith, has been left devastated after vandals targeted a memorial bench dedicated to his late partner, Diana Milne. The bench, a handmade tribute that has stood for four years near the cemetery where Diana is buried, has become a symbol of love and remembrance for Findlay, who was with Diana for over 20 years before her passing in 2019.
The significance of the memorial
Constructed from a sturdy metal frame and two solid pieces of wood, the bench was adorned with a small blue plaque that reads, “Diana Milne, Simply the Best.” This simple yet poignant gesture reflects Findlay’s deep affection for Diana and his desire to keep her memory alive.
According to his daughter, Naomi, Findlay visits the bench daily to tend to the flowers at Diana’s grave, ensuring that the area remains beautiful, especially during the summer months.
Vandalism strikes
Unfortunately, the bench has not only been a place of solace but also a target for vandalism. Earlier this year, the wooden parts of the bench were damaged, prompting Findlay’s son-in-law to assist in repairs. However, the situation escalated on March 28, when the two large wooden pieces were ripped off the metal frame. Findlay learned of the incident from a friend and was understandably upset, questioning, “Why would anyone do that to a memorial?” His daughter expressed her father’s devastation over the cruel destruction of such a meaningful tribute.
Community support emerges
In the wake of this distressing event, the Buckie community has rallied around Findlay. Naomi reported that many locals were shocked by the vandalism and have offered their assistance in repairing the bench. “A few people have offered to help him fix it, which is lovely to hear,” she said, highlighting the compassion and solidarity within the community. Findlay himself expressed gratitude for the kind words and support he has received, stating, “It was well-used by many people, and hopefully one day I can replace it.”
Looking ahead
As Findlay contemplates his next steps, he is hesitant to rebuild the bench in the same location, considering instead placing a memorial bench within the safety of his garden. This decision reflects not only his desire to protect Diana’s memory but also the emotional toll the vandalism has taken on him. The community’s response serves as a reminder of the power of compassion and support in times of distress, demonstrating that even in the face of adversity, love and remembrance can prevail.
